The When I Am Angry, I Can… Choice Cards by Twinkl are a supportive tool for helping children identify constructive ways to manage their anger. Each card presents a simple, healthy coping strategy that children can use when they feel overwhelmed by anger, promoting emotional self-regulation in a way that is accessible and engaging.
Key Features:
Variety of Coping Strategies: The cards include diverse options for managing anger, such as:
- Physical Outlets: Activities like going for a run, doing star jumps, or stomping allow children to release energy and tension.
- Calming Techniques: Options such as taking a deep breath, doing yoga, or lying on bean bags help children focus on relaxation.
- Creative Outlets: Cards suggest drawing a picture or listening to a favourite song, offering soothing activities to shift focus from anger.
- Seeking Support: Cards encourage children to talk to someone or ask for a time out, promoting healthy communication and self-advocacy.
Empowering Choice: The cards empower children to choose their own coping strategies, giving them a sense of control over their emotional responses and promoting independence.
Sensory and Environmental Options: Some cards suggest going to a sensory room or watching TV as a way to redirect attention and calm down, which can be particularly effective for children with sensory sensitivities.
Positive Reinforcement: The cards are framed positively, with phrases like “It’s okay to be angry” and “This will make me feel calm again,” normalising anger as a natural emotion and encouraging children to approach it constructively.
The When I Am Angry, I Can… Choice Cards are ideal for use in classrooms, therapy, or at home, providing children with practical and easy-to-remember tools for managing anger. By offering multiple options, the cards support children in finding strategies that work best for them, fostering emotional resilience and healthy expression.



