The Life Quiz by Winston’s Wish is a supportive tool for children to explore and celebrate memories of a loved one who has died. This gentle quiz format encourages children to recall details about the person’s life, which can bring comfort and help keep their memory alive. By focusing on their life and interests, the quiz aims to create a positive, lasting image beyond the loss itself.
Purpose and Use:
The Life Quiz helps children:
- Recall Personal Memories: Encourages them to bring cherished memories of the loved one to mind, especially when memories are limited due to young age or emotional avoidance.
- Collect Stories from Others: Children may reach out to family members, like grandparents or uncles, for answers. This fosters connection and allows the child to gather multiple perspectives, enriching their sense of the person’s life.
Example Questions:
- Everyday Details: “What was this person’s favourite colour?” or “What flavour ice cream would they choose?”
- Hobbies and Interests: “What sport did they enjoy watching most?” or “If they did karaoke, what song would they pick?”
- School and Youth: “What was the naughtiest thing they did at school?” or “Did they have a pet, and what was its name?”
- Aspirations and Dreams: “What did they want to be when they grew up?” and “What was the best thing about them?”
Ideal Settings:
The quiz can be part of an anniversary ritual, placed in a Memory Box or Memory Book for ongoing reflection, allowing children to revisit and cherish these memories over time.
The Life Quiz is a sensitive, personalised activity that aids in the grieving process by focusing on joyful and meaningful memories. It provides comfort and strengthens familial bonds as children learn about the person’s life from different perspectives, building a lasting, positive legacy.
